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Does Prince William Know His Marital Statistics?

Reading about Prince William’s engagement somehow led me to an article about the decline in marriage and the ‘new families’. Pew Social Trends and TIME Magazine did a survey and this a brief summary of their findings.

  • Higher education, wealth and marriage are linked
  • Women are smarter, richer, more independent and are more 2/3 likely to initiate divorce
  • Don’t be surprised if the wife is the breadwinner, older and taller than hubby
  • Higher educated couples test run before marriage and children, less educated couples have children then marry
  • Pray you’re not living in the US: “..a child living together with unmarried parents in Sweden has a lower chance that his family will disrupt than does a child living with married parents in the U.S.”
  • Married and unmarried adults say (in order of priority) that love, making a lifelong commitment and companionship are very important reasons to get married. Having children moderately so and financial stability barely even made it past the 30% mark for married adults.
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Garbage In = Garbage Out!!

One of the few things that actually stuck with me from the good old days of Uni is that: if you put garbage in, you’ll always get garbage out.

Originally used to refer to the quality of our work: poor research and preparation leads to poor assignments, reports, presentations etc.
I now apply it for everything, from driving: bad navigation leads to bad shortcuts
to family: children see, children do
to work: bad habits = irreversible damage
to friends: alcohol in, alcohol out


So I’ve been driving myself crazy the past couple of months trying to figure out how to redirect and more importantly mask the directory WordPress is stored so it appears to be in the root directory. Searching… Searching… Searching…  and I discovered something called mod_rewrite and was reading up and doing a patchwork job applying it to the site.

It worked, barely (due to my severe lack of knowledge and understanding). I had huge issues with the links showing the directory folder name instead of being straight from the root. Reading up more on mod_rewrite made me realise there was no chance of using it to fix the bug, I was sure it could do the job but I just wasn’t g33ky enough to understand the process

As I was about to give up, something amazing appeared before my very eyes…
Under Settings – General next to the “Site Address (URL)” box is the following link “Enter the address here if you want your site homepage to be different from the directory you installed WordPress“.
I followed the instructions…

And FAILED! (again)

In hindsight I can see how stupified and simple the instructions are, and yet obviously not noob-proofed. The reason for failing? Not reading the instructions. Doh! I looked at the text and thought, “Ha! Piece of cake”

When that didn’t work I surfed the support forums to salvage my errors but unfortunately had no other choice but to restore everything. THANK GOD FOR BACKUPS! (even if it was a shoddy backup)

Taking a deep breath, and backing up EVERYTHING in the process, I gave it another shot. This time taking my time and actually reading the instructions from Moving WordPress from Within Your Site (which I found through the wordpress support forums)….

Piece.Of.Cake:)

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 1

Harry Potter and the Deathly HallowsWe went to watch Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows Part 1 last weekend and it was much better than I expected. yaY! I didn’t expect the graphics to be so realistic (I truly love CGI shylove) and blend in to the “Muggle World” so naturally. For example, even though I loved Avatar the movie, the CGI was quite obvious at some parts (although maybe that could be due to the 3D?)

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows Part 1 is the first Harry Potter movie I’ve watched in cinema, both Philosopher’s Stone and Goblet of Fire were on TV by the time I watched it and watching Order of the Pheonix on the laptop just doesn’t quite compare to the massive screen and surround sound in cinema.

13 years on (yes! Harry Potter came out in 1997!! omg) and Harry Potter is still as much loved and idolised as it was all those years ago, albeit the fan base has aged somewhat…. giggle

I have to say though, despite the movie looking and sounding super (in IMAX no less)… no flashy graphics or swanky sound fx can beat the power of imagination. Hogwarts and the world of magic seemed so puny on the big screen than compared to what I had created in my mind.


Anyhow, off I go to try and remember what happened in the Deathly Hallows Part 2. I bought all the Harry Potter books when I was living in Beijing except for one which didn’t have the matching cover… and of course it had to be the Deathly Hallows! blee1

Universal Studios Singapore

Went on another whirlwind weekend with bf, this time to… SINGAPORE!! Being Malaysian and all, I don’t have a very good perception of Singapore in general – it can’t be helped, it’s in my upbringing!! ^_- hAHa! Despite the low expectations, the trip went extremely well – to the point I wouldn’t mind visiting again =)

Universal Studios Singapore

One of the reasons for enjoying myself so much was the day spent at Universal Studios Singapore!!! Since it only opened around March 2010 not all the rides and attractions are functioning/open for visitors which is a bit of a bummer, the guys were also a bit hungover so we didn’t go on many rides ^^;;

Universal Studios Singapore - BattleStar Galactica: Cylon!

Even with the lack of queuing for rides, it took us the day to go around the whole park (express pass is recommended if you plan on going on many rides – just not worth the queues!). Thankfully the day we chose was actually quite decent for a humid country like Singapore, sunny with a few clouds… it became quite stormy towards the evening just as we were leaving and finishing up our shopping though.

Universal Studios Singapore - Shrek Babiess

We could have probably spent more time in Universal Studios, but the weather quickly drains your energy and makes walking around in the humidity quite uncomfortable even with plenty of air-conditioned breaks. Overall it was a good experience with lots to see, many photo opportunities and great company. It would have been a little nicer if more of the attractions were actually OPEN or functioning though… I would recommend others to wait for all the attractions to open before planning a visit~

Birthday Weekend

Yet another whirlwind weekend~

(A)lure

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Cleansing In Progress…

I’ve read enough about the risks of posting your thoughts on the internet (1, 2) and thought I should probably give SelinaLai.com a thorough cleansing… I recall a few emotional rants bagging certain products, services, and the like.

It’s a sad sad day for bloggers like me to have to remove opinionated posts ‘to-be-on-the-safe-side’. You can’t just post anything online any more, you have to stay vigilant and constantly alert! police

Please don’t be surprised if there are any broken links, dead images and/0r posts which you can no longer access or find online etc.

Broken img

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